Postby cerrodepedro » Sun Jun 26, 2016 5:56 pm
Okay the podcast is talking about dynamics in Ninja and fending off emotional vampirism but it hit me in the gut about my own mental illness and the management thereof. When I don't reign that shit in, either by logicking through it if possible, or just tranquilizng myself, I SUCK THE LIFE from peeps with my whining. Co parent has had to tell me to shuuuuuut uuuuup when I get all negative-sauce about all the troubles in life. Sure, there is a place for venting and getting empathy, and that place can be kept safe and special, but if you love people, if you respect them, you pay attention to what you're adding to or taking away from in terms of their life. So anyhow, it looks like NE continues to thrive because of a seriously grownup approach to relationship dynamics. Thanks, y'all.
Once was lost and now am lost; was blind but now I smoke

